“The Boy” is 21 and lives with autism, ADHD, severe learning disabilities and sensory processing differences. In this blog, his parent shares the ups and downs of navigating big life transitions — from leaving school and starting college to moving from children’s to adult services. A heartfelt and honest look at the challenges, the progress, and the importance of preparation and support.

Children experience the world through their senses — for some this is smooth, for others overwhelming. Our new blog explores how sensory needs affect learning, daily life, and family routines, with tips on creating supportive environments that help children feel safe, included, and understood.

Becoming foster carers opened our eyes to the reality of SEN. What started as judgment from the sidelines turned into a crash course in ADHD, autism, trauma, and endless battles for support. Even with training and confidence, navigating EHCPs and underfunded schools was overwhelming. It’s tough, exhausting, and emotional — but these children deserve every fight. And yes, we’d do it all again.

Being a parent carer means navigating systems, advocating, and holding on through exhaustion. I’ve learned that asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival. And protecting family time isn’t a luxury—it’s essential. If you’re on this journey, know you’re not alone. Your voice matters. Your child matters. And together, we are stronger.